Be it your first time or if you are trying something new, both you and your partner need to be on the same page. It’s important that you are clear and firm on certain aspects of s3xual intimacy to ensure nothing comes as a surprise. After all, making love needs to be a fulfilling and safe experience for both of you.

Here are four things you must discuss about before trying something new in bed.

 Expectations

Communication is king, in this matter. Keep it clear, straightforward and firm. Sit down and discuss your expectations with each other. It’s extremely necessary to be honest so that your partner is aware of where you stand and vice versa. Let them know what you are okay with and what you are not.

No-Go Zones

Along with discussing what your expectations are, ensure you are stern about your boundaries as well. First, you need to know what is unacceptable, which will then make it easier to hold these conversations and take it further. Observe what both of you are enthusiastic about, and then see if you both agree to those. The entire point of this conversation is to not put yourself or your partner in an uncomfortable situation.

Unpleasant Experiences

Any unpleasant s3xual experience can lead to trauma, either mentally or collectively on the relationship. Making love is an act of love. Respect your partner’s decisions and do not jump boundaries. This behaviour can compound problems like trust issues, communication disruption and aversion to your partners which might lead to the relationship eventually falling apart.

Contraception And Lubrications

Two of the most important factors that one must ascertain before taking any step are contraception and lubrication. Both of which avoid sticky situations like unwanted pregnancies, acquiring s3xually transmitted infections and friction or irritation during penetration. You know your body better than anybody else, if you feel you need to have them for a better s3xual experience, do not hesitate to let your partner know about the same. They can be handy.