For some, the word ‘No’ is learned in order to suppress the habitual need to say yes at the drop of a hat. This can only be problematic in situations where ‘No’ is a necessity.

There are people who undeniably can’t say the ever-so-easy negative word. These two letter-word are as powerful as in the situations they are said. In a situation where the opposite sex is concerned, it can be quite tricky to determine what a girl means. 

Some (Guys) say, she really means yes, while others (Girls) say she really means no. One common factor in both circumstances is that she actually ‘says’ something. It’s quite easy to discern what is meant when you consider the body language as well. 

The simple answer to what a girl means when she says ‘no’ can be solved through her body language. You don’t hear her say no and see her body language is on the same page and yet, you insist she means yes. Are you on a codeine diet? Anyone who claims a girl means yes in spite her body language and facial expression, saying the same thing is just being intentionally blinded.

However, guys who say a girl means yes when she says no, need to be careful. If she isn’t blushing, touching you and fluttering her eyes while saying ‘No’, then please she means No. No means No!

Truth is, to be on the safe side, it’s better to accept the reality of the 21st century. A girl means what she says. Girls these days know what they want. They are assertive, and the problem men face these days is on how to zip their lips. Needless to say, it doesn’t hurt to be positively assertive where decision making is concerned. 

While the prior mentioned instance is physical, you may wonder, “How do you know what she means when you can’t see her body language.”

Recently, conversations are held on the mobile device or on social media. If you’re having a conversation with a girl and she says No, it doesn’t take an expert to denote from her tone if she means it. A girl can either be stern or flirty. If she stays in between the lines because you ‘believe she’s leading you on’, MOVE ON! Don’t think twice about a girl’s no especially when you’re not in a relationship. 

Being in a relationship gives you an upper hand of understanding her. Sometimes, she may be upset about something and it might be a wrong time, wrong place situation. You can manage the situation wisely.

So, if this isn’t the case, move on. Just move on. If her tone isn’t flirty like “No jor. Stop it Jor (Chuckle Chuckle)” then move on. Never forget how complicated girls can be. 

Finally, if she’s on social media and she tells you she’s not interested, what else are you waiting for? Don’t be pushy and keep pressuring her to a point when it becomes a game of stalking or desperation. 

In summary, after all the stories that touch, remember one thing: The reality today is a girl knows what she wants, and she doesn’t find it difficult to share her thoughts. Even if she’s shy, she would let you know through her body language. 

The situation in which a word is said is very vital. Therefore, consider the circumstance, the body language, the tone and finally, the relationship. 

In simple terms, NO IS NO! That should be your default comprehension on the word she says or writes. 

Have you ever been in a No situation before? Share your experience while you share this BUZZ.