You can bring s*x to a crashing halt with ill-chosen words. The trick is to remember anything you say during s*x has twice the power, and twice the ability to lift or destroy someone, as it does in normal life. Saying things that you shouldn’t say kind of makes your partner lose it during the passion of the moment. Here are the things not to say during s*x.

You’re doing it wrong

Instead of pointing the finger at someone, try saying something instead like, “Mmmmm, that’s nice… now let’s try doing it this way

Can we get on with it?

This will mean that you are being forced into doing it and you want to play along so make the person feel ok.

You’re not very good at this

If they really are that bad, then help them learn rather than criticize them.

That reminds me of an ex 

This should never be said during s*x with your partner. It means you are still thinking about or still in love with your ex. Better still, it will show that you prefer doing that with your ex.

Have you finished yet?

This will make your partner feel uncomfortable. It will show that you don’t want to do anything like that or you were forced into it.

Nothing

Rolling over after the event and saying nothing, going to sleep, or even getting dressed and making a swift exit are all really offensive things to do. Implying you were just there to get your rocks off and your s*xual partner may as well have been a s*x toy.

We should break up

Even if you want to break up with your partner, that wouldn’t be the right time to do that. As if you are having your last enjoyment before you leave the person.

Another person’s name

This can really be a turnoff for your partner. It would mean you are having s*x with another person on your mind.

Hold on, let me respond to that text

This is really a bad thing to do when you are in that sweet moment. It means that you are not involved in the activity or your mind is not on what is going on.

You really need to work out

You shouldn’t be cruel to your partner during s*x. It would mean you are not attracted to your partner but you just want to satisfy your s*xual pleasures.